I know that I'm a handful, baby, uh
The moments after my C-section were not my finest. Everything aside from my head was numb. My nose was stuffy and I was trying not to cry. And once baby was out, safe, limbs accounted for and I saw his tiny face… all 7lbs, 8 oz of him… I deflated. It’s like I was holding my breath for 24 hours. I was loopy as all hell. Once they stitched me up and rolled me back to the L&D room, they were like, “Here, hold your baby!” And I was like, uh I can’t completely feel my arms yet. Then they tried with the breastfeeding right away? Holy overwhelm.
Turns out I have inverted nipples and needed a SHIELD. I sweated so much whenever I slept because hormones? Because of the C-section, I was set to be in recovery until Friday. A few meals were just ice chips. Then clear liquids. Which I promptly threw up. I had an ambitious plan to get Poke from the 4.5-star place just across the street from the hospital. But I hardly had an appetite. My first real meal post-birth was actually pancakes.
One other reason I didn’t want a C-section was being in recovery in the hospital days afterward. Turns out it was totally necessary. Between the nurses helping with the baby, me being dosed with pain meds and not being able to even WALK for awhile, yeah….
I’ll go ahead and say the beds were NICE. We know from our lamaze classes that they’d just got an upgrade. Glad to be one of the first to test them out. Not a fan of those rhythmic squeezing socks to prevent blood clots, but I get it.
I'm grateful that I brought my own hospital gown and slippers. That I brought shower towelettes that I originally bought for post-gym activities. That we brought our white noise machine. And our own swaddle blanket. But the hospital really had everything else.
Hormones caused a whole lot of sweating in my sleep. Or should I say… naps. Little did I know naps as opposed to SLEEP would be my life as I know it beyond that day.
I’ve been writing this blog for like 3 weeks so I think I’m going to go ahead and call it quits.
Other notes, at one month post-partum:
-Most days I rarely make it out of my pajamas. Between the healing scar and a rigorous pumping schedule, it’s hard to make an argument for an actual ENSEMBLE at any point.
-Desmond is adorable. I know I’m his mom but I think I can also say that objectively.
-I think Tim takes a lot of his crying very personally. Actually, I know he does. As if babies have some other way to communicate? -Wow it kind of blows not having family close. Next week it’ll be me and baby, 12 hours a day.
-Yesterday we went for our first WALK, like OUTSIDE. With the stroller. I wore actual shoes.
-Also we got an infant insert for the Graco swing that Ellina gave us so Desmond had his first pleasant go-round in it, along with the baby shusher and a paci—a holy trinity of baby soothing.
-I was one of those people who used to say “breastfeeding is free” (which is why I was willing to give it go, along with the promised weight loss) but never again. I’m exclusively pumping and between equipment and TIME—no, absolutely it is not free. Also, pumping is still breastfeeding, it’s just not nursing.
-Wow, there are a whole lot of abbreviations just pertinent to the MOM/Pumping communities. MOTN. PPD. OPD. FTM. EP. EBF.
-Our cats are truly providing emotional support. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been up pumping in the middle of the night and Oli will join me on the couch and just put a paw on my foot for the duration. It also feels good to hear strong purrs after baby goes down following an especially fussy bout. It’s like the cat way of saying, “you are doing a good job."